One of the biggest stresses of wedding planning has to be the Guest List. We're trying to keep costs down, and that means a low guest count. I'm trying to be ruthless and cut certain people, but every time I think about it, my anxiety kicks in. Just an FYI.... I started writing this post in the middle of going over my guest list to provide my sister with a list for my bridal shower. I am currently in my fiance's family's group text debating whether to invite his first cousin and his wife. Spoiler alert: they're most likely not going to be invited! Again, I'm trying to be ruthless. I may need lots of coaching, and go through a few panic attacks but I'm determined. Luckily I've had the support of some friends to get me through it. As one says "she's gonna give me a backbone." We want to keep our guest list around 100 - 120 max. Vin and I are both one of 6, that means our immediate family already makes up 25% of our guest list if we invite...